How to Attract Women
How to pick up and attract women is on sale by charlatans all over the internet but I’m going to give it to you for free.
It’s got nothing to do with being a better man, it’s got nothing to do with getting in the gym and building muscles, and it’s got nothing to do with pick-up artist or ‘game’ baloney.
There is 1 rule above all others that must be followed if you wish to have undying affection, attention and love from women.
The truth is that men love women who are demure, feminine, and polite. Women have it twisted, they think that being a nasty bitch is the same thing as being honest and true. The unfortunate thing is that a lot of guys let women get away with this nasty behavior, in hopes of getting some sex.
These guys let women pretend to be strong and independent. Friend, those are male traits, those aren’t female traits and they never will be.
Women want to make men happy. Once you realize that, you can forget about the nonsense of equality.
The “fight for equality” is nothing more than a war between the sexes. Now that you are honest with yourself it makes what I’m about to tell you that much easier
to put into action. Once you stop believing in that baloney it’s going to turn you into a testosterone machine irresistible to women and girls.
Let me be clear about something: The rule I’m about to give you works for all women, from the sassy, independent sex and the city wannabes to the good ol’ country girls raised in the church to the girls from a 3rd world country to girls from outer space and beyond.
This is the only thing you ever have to do to a) Get women and b) Keep women.
If you read online about how to pick-up women you’re always going to read about Alpha males and Beta males. An Alpha male is the top dog and Beta males collect the scraps. Bunch of nincompoops will write pages and pages about “being Alpha” but none of them will ever boil it down to what it really means.
Well, today I am going to tell you exactly what makes an Alpha Male. It ain’t: looks, money, social skills, leadership abilities, social status, height or anything else. These things matter but they aren’t #1. This isn’t a nice piece of advice but it is the 100% unadulterated truth. If you follow all other ways to become attractive to women but ignore this advice you will fail.
Here is the only piece of advice you will ever need to attract and keep women: BE SELFISH.
Alpha simply means ‘to be selfish’. And women love selfish men. An Alpha is completely unafraid of being selfish. Alpha literally means ‘first’. It’s a selfish ‘me-first’ attitude. What does an Alpha lion do? He sits around while the women go out and hunt for him. When they bring the food back what does the Alpha lion do? He eats first.
Pretty selfish, huh? The lion doesn’t tolerate others eating before him. The best food is his. The Alpha lion doesn’t raise other lion’s children. He’s selfish. And because he is selfish, the lionesses do everything to make him happy.
It takes a delusional mind to think that women want a nice guy who brings them flowers and compliments their beauty and does everything to make them happy.
The man is the leader.
That’s all there is to it. When the man is most concerned with her happiness, guess what she is most concerned about. That’s right, she is most concerned with her happiness. When you are most concerned with your happiness guess what she is most concerned about. Right again, she is concerned about your happiness. She takes her cues from you – never forget that.
Does this sound familiar? “What the heck does she see in him? He’s such a prick! She’s way too good for him! If she was with me I’d treat her like a princess!”
That’s exactly why she will never ever be with guys who say this nonsense. She doesn’t want to date a giant faggot. She wants to date a selfish Alpha. She wants to be with him and make him happy. She’s disgusted by the thought of someone wanting to treat her like a princess and groveling for her affection.
A selfish Alpha simply demands her affection. If she doesn’t give it there are a whole lot more women who will. If your brain works properly then you have noticed that women who are completely, head over heels in love are never in love with a “super nice guy”. They’re in love with guys who are selfish.
So what do you have to do to get women? You got to get rid of the nice guy act. Just do what you want to do, when you want to do it and don’t put up with bullshit. Only be concerned with what you want. Be completely, unapologetically selfish. It’s your way or the highway. Learn your new favorite word: no. If she does something you don’t like then you be selfish and tell her.
Never, ever pretend that what she did is ok. Never pretend that she is an angel who can do no wrong. If she’s acting like a bitch tell her to stop acting like a bitch. If she cooked food that doesn’t taste good then tell her it isn’t good. If she looks fat in that dress tell her she looks fat. Lying to protect her feelings only makes her delusional about what is and isn’t acceptable.
Let me tell you something that most people are afraid to say: Women are chameleons. They will change themselves for a man. That’s a woman’s nature. It doesn’t make her a bad person. She wants to change into the woman you want her to be.
Let her. Help her. You aren’t doing her any favors by encouraging bad behavior, but you are doing her a big favor when you act like a man who knows exactly what he wants – and gets it. What would a selfish man do?
Would he take turns doing the dishes? No. Would he accompany her to her co-workers wedding? No. Would he grovel and beg for forgiveness for anything? No.
Would he massage her shoulders for an hour? No. Would he feel bad about being such an asshole? No. Would he put up with bitchy behavior? No. Would he take her silly tests seriously? No. Would he be ok with her seeing other guys? No.
Would he forgive her for betraying him? No. Would he spend 3 months salary on a ring?
No. Would he put up with flaky behavior? No. Would he take her out to a fancy dinner on
the first date? No.
Would he say “please can you bring me a water sweetie“? No. He says “bring me a water“. Is he scared that if he isn’t nice enough she will leave him for someone better? No.
Is he afraid to show her the door if she doesn’t act the way he wants? No. Would he use her as a tool for his own happiness? Yes. Would she love him with all of her heart and soul? You better believe it.
You can be a liar and pretend it isn’t so, and drive her away in the process, or you can act like a man, a winner, and let her make you happy. She can become a part of your world or you can become part of her world. The choice is yours.
